We see or hear this too often. Friends who tell you that their marriage is over. Reasons? Not getting along. She doesn’t understand me. He doesn’t pay attention to me. We get time together and he goes to sleep. The words “I love you” are said plainly. All we do is argue. Or the classic one: “I don’t feel his/her love” or “I don’t feel that I love him/her anymore.
Marriage is forever people. It’s not about how you feel each day. You took wedding vows that stated that MARRIAGE IS FOREVER which means that if something isn’t right, you work on it til it is. Much love and respect to all those wonderful couples that I know that practice this.
For those that struggle and wonder when the marriage will return to the happiness that once was, I challenge you to wake up each day with the idea that you will do one thing that expresses your love to your GOD GIVEN SPOUSE. Marriage is not an obligation, it’s a blessing from God – off my soapbox
